360loving · Helping relationships thrive
Love has many chapters.
Some people are finding it. Some are learning it. Some are rebuilding it. Some are celebrating it.
360loving gives each chapter a place. One community, two homes.
One community. Two homes.
Wherever you are in love, there's a home for you here.
The Circle
Who might I meet?A vetted community for singles in their thirties and beyond. We curate the room; you find your person.
Meet · Mingle · Grow Enter the Circle →The Hearth
How do we keep choosing each other?For couples, dating seriously or married: the conversations, experiences and celebrations that keep the fire lit.
Connect · Deepen · Celebrate Enter the Hearth →What we're built on
Four ideas, in the language they came from.
These four values run through everything in both homes: what we look for in the Circle, and what we practise in the Hearth.
Ìfẹ́
Seeking the welfare of the one you love, in actions, not just words. The decision you make again on ordinary days.
Ìfọkàntán
Trusting with your whole heart: being safe to rely on, and brave enough to rely on someone.
Sùúrù
Letting love grow at its own pace, and giving grace while it does.
Ìbárasọ̀rọ̀
Speaking without fear, and listening deeply without judgement. The skill every good relationship thrives on.
The love song behind 360loving
Hear “Found You”
A love song for everyone who found their person — and for everyone still looking, who would like to believe it happens.
It arrived just ahead of my birthday on 28 September, so the only present I'm asking for is this: play it once, send it to one couple who found each other, and tell me your love story.
Found You · #FoundYouStories
Every love story has a moment.
The moment you met. The moment you noticed. The moment you chose. The moment you knew.
Maybe your Found You story is still ahead. Or maybe you already know the moment. Tell us about it.
The stories that move us get featured, and one wins a L'Aruge gift package. Entries close at the end of October.
What we're looking for
Not the polished version. The bit where it nearly didn't happen, or the ordinary Tuesday you realised. The specific detail beats the grand statement every time.
Written, or sixty seconds of video. Nothing gets published without your name on it and your permission.
Meet Doctor Love
Ebun D'Almeida
Counsellor, mediator and the voice behind Doctor Love. 360loving grew out of years of sitting with people at every chapter of love: hoping for it, building it, repairing it, and celebrating it.
We curate the room. You find your person.
14 February 2027 · Lagos
The 360loving Gala
A celebration of love, in every chapter.
Not a singles night, and not a couples' dinner. One evening for the whole community: Circle members, Hearth couples, and everyone in between. Circle members wear a small coral pin, so those open to meeting someone can be found without being singled out.